And all of these are excellent issues. The ones Carmen is probably most likely to latch onto are the abandonment complex (which she'll notice probably because she's the one used to leaving at the drop of a hat), the confidence stuff, and possibly the issues letting people close to him — though that one, she might leave alone because she can understand wanting to hold people at arm's length on a personal level. The confidence one would probably be the easiest for her to handle, but I have to believe she'll inadvertently end up hitting a lot of them anyway, if only because she's dealing with similar issues herself in her own ways, and it might end up being a sort of "look, if I can do it, you can too" kind of scenario. I'll keep tabs on what topics seem to come up when they talk and work on having her poke at them as the situation warrants, okay? C:
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And all of these are excellent issues. The ones Carmen is probably most likely to latch onto are the abandonment complex (which she'll notice probably because she's the one used to leaving at the drop of a hat), the confidence stuff, and possibly the issues letting people close to him — though that one, she might leave alone because she can understand wanting to hold people at arm's length on a personal level. The confidence one would probably be the easiest for her to handle, but I have to believe she'll inadvertently end up hitting a lot of them anyway, if only because she's dealing with similar issues herself in her own ways, and it might end up being a sort of "look, if I can do it, you can too" kind of scenario. I'll keep tabs on what topics seem to come up when they talk and work on having her poke at them as the situation warrants, okay? C: